Honestly. if you are a #toxic #dom in a #bdsm #dynamic that does not #respect #safewords and are #toxic and won't change. I will #haunt #you. I''ll be the #demon under your #bed. I don't fucking care if the thing in the #scene was ok last time. The safeword shall be respected at all fucking times, and you don't need an explination why it was used. It is your #responsibility as dom to make sure that your #sub feel #safe. I don't fucking care who you are.

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

#SentimentalDom

It has occurred to me several times since my Daddy and i have started to explore our #kinky sides that the #kink community has a lot to teach vanillas about safety. The emphasis on enthusiastic #consent, #SafeWords, and knowledge and skills makes having sex so much less fraught, even for those of us already in emotionally safe and loving relationships. These things should be mainstreamed.

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.

#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.

#SentimentalDom

1/4 I'm not someone who often post about kink or BDSM - but today I saw someone saying that safewords and BDSM (specifically D/s) were rape-culture and needing a safeword instead of stop/no was just proof of it.

And honestly, that just pissed me off, so the Mistress is coming out to say a few words.

In a D/s relationship everything is about 100% consent. Everything is discussed and agreed upon.

Including safewords.

#rant #kink #BDSM #safewords #sex #safewords #trust