edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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Yes, yes there are.

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4th Question:
Q4: Are there any good songs to get ?

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#sexymusic #kinky #a4 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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There was a time that I didn't think anything could match the power a butt plug have over me to push me towards subspace, but I must admit that my chastity cage is a good one too.

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3rd Question:
Q3: Do you have any favorite products?

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#sexlife #sextoy #A3 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I am not sure what you might mean by a public figure, but I respect and admire @ShahrazadTRC@twitter.com and her work with @RitualChamberTO@twitter.com. I have loved the work of @MsJewellMarceau@twitter.com and @emilymarilyn@twitter.com for years.

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2nd question!Β 
Q2: Do you have any favorite public kinksters figures? 😈

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#sexsymbol #kink #a2 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I think for me it might be impact play. I've had only the first touches of such things, but I also have friends of speak very highly of the practice and benefits.

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1st question!Β 
Q1:Β What fascinates you but also kind of scares or stresses you?

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#sexquestion #kink #a1 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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The biggest difference that I've noticed is that in media, most often female Dominants are portrayed as feeling nothing but disdain or disgust towards male submissives, where my experience has been that of great positivity, support and encouragement.

#a4 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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RT @SexTalkTuesday@twitter.com

4️⃣th question:
Q4: "How does the reality of the positive aspects of or differ from what the press or media has told you?" - by @dirkhooper@twitter.comΒ 

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#sextalktuesday #bdsm #kink

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I have, in a couple of really quite moving situations, been able to feel true acceptance, even a feeling of being wanted and desired as a submissive, which has not always been easily found situation.

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2️⃣nd question!
Q2: "Do you have a personal story about how or has been positive or healing for you?" - by @DirkHooper@twitter.com

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#TuesdayConfessions #bdsm #kink #a2 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I believe so without a doubt. Kink and BDSM allowed me to express and think about myself and my desires in a whole new, freeing way, and gave me a path to self acceptance, even celebration, rather than shame.

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1️⃣ st question!Β 
Q1:" Do you think that or can be positive or healing for members of the community?" - by @dirkhooper@twitter.comΒ 

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#bdsm #kink #a1 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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If I do so with my pen name, does that count?

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Question 4: Do you feel free to speak your mind, especially about sex, , , or on social media?

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#sexeducation #sexlife #sexproblems #sexualhealth #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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My position would be that slut-shaming, defined for myself as trying to put down and judge someone else based on your sexual morals, is a form of bullying, yes.

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Question 5:Β 
What about on , is it considered as a form of bullying or a social judgment? πŸ€”

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#socialmedia #slutshaming #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I believe that censorship may be contributing and playing along with societal taboos, but is more likely primarily about kicking off people who helped build the media so that it can be more easily monetized to a mass audience.

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Second question:Β 
Q2: Do you think that the ban on Instagram is feeding a society Taboo, somehow?

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#sexualtaboo #adultcontent #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I think it is interesting that you use "adult content" in your question and "porn" in the image. I think adult content absolutely should be on social media, as adults are using it. That can include sexual content, but also a whole range of other adult themes.

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Here we go! First question:Β 
Q1: How do you feel about on platforms?Β 

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#adultbusiness #adultindustry #socialmedia #adultcontent #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I've got to think that depends on the individual. Some might follow their desires or inspiration into the role and others might have to follow the leading of their inner voice first.

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Q5: As a Switch, can you switch at will or does it take a certain person or scenario to cause a switch? Via @GoddessSunset@twitter.com

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#sextalk #kinky #bondage #kink #bdsm #A5 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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Yes, and I have. One of my first and most influential Dominants was a switch and she was simply amazing at exploring all the aspects of her needs and desires.

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Q4: Could you submit to a Switch? Via @GoddessSunset@twitter.com

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#bdsm #a4 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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Yes, I think you see this all the time, especially with some seeming to have readily shared opinions on the rules on what makes a "real Dominant" -- from how they act or how they dress.

I think that being switch doesn't make anyone less of anything.

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Q3: Do people sometimes view a Switch as less Dom/me or less sub? Do you? Via @GoddessSunset@twitter.com

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#sextalk #kinky #bdsm #A3 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I can see some challenges, to be sure, but who am I to say how consenting adults conduct their relationship. I'll say yes, if they want to and find their way together.

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Q2: Can a Switch be in a monogamous relationship with a non-switch? via @GoddessSunset@twitter.com

πŸ¦πŸ”—: twitter.com/SexTalkTuesday/sta

#dating #sextalk #kinktips #kink #bdsm #a2 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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Yes, switches absolutely exist. Some people express the totality of themselves by expressing their Dominance at some times and their submission in others, not to mention everything in between.

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Q1: Do switches even exist? Via @GoddessSunset@twitter.com

What is a switch to you?

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#a1 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I pay because it is a product I want and enjoy, and I wan the creators to be able to keep making it.
I hate this internet-era philosophy that somehow because it is easy to steal, that makes it okay.

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Q5: When did you purchase your first "porn subscription?" What made you go for it? via @porndiscounts@twitter.com

Also, why do you ?

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#pay4yourporn #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I was in my mid-20s when I first paid for a membership to a site I chose for content and quality. I wanted to have access to their library and their new posts, and I wanted to support the creators and stars.

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Q5: When did you purchase your first "porn subscription?" What made you go for it? via @porndiscounts@twitter.com

Also, why do you ?

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#pay4yourporn #A5 #sextalktuesday

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edward cantor · @edward_cantor
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I think I would use the word "luxury."

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Q3: Do you see porn subscriptions as an entertainment "necessity" or is "an indulgence?" via @porndiscounts@twitter.com

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#porn #A3 #sextalktuesday

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