I have so many complicated feelings about shaming people for their harmful actions, specifically from a public health standpoint. It hurts so much to see people I care about or respect go everywhere maskless. I want people to know that what they're doing is not okay. I don't want a thousand other people to say the same thing making them feel hopeless and pull away from doing better all together. I want people to hear that they've hurt others, acknowledge that, and then do better. I want them to mean it, not just say it to stop people harassing them.

I have shamed people or been part of mass shaming re: COVID. I just did in a recent post about the ADA33 afterparty. But the more I think about it and hear from people who have been in community organising for decades, the more I feel like I'm just doing collateral damage. I read 5 different points of view on it by 20 different people just today and it's so much to consider, I feel very confused. I feel like I don't even know what accountability is anymore. I just want people to do better. I don't want the person doing harm to feel hopeless. But leaders going maskless to disability events also makes me feel hopeless. I want everyone to just do better, be better, and have hope.

I have so much to learn and un learn. I need to read abolitionist and HIV organisers on this.

#shame #shaming #publicHealth #Covid19 #CovidIsNotOver #maskUp #DisabilityRights

Skrollaatteko fiidiä ylös/alas peukalolla tai etusormella?

Senkin moukat, voisitte kävelyttää sitä etusormen ja keskisormen jalkamuodostelmalla.

Truu-pro-scrollerit osaa moonwalkin.

#Shaming #Fingerplay

How #sugar became the #scapegoat for society’s ills – from #austerity to the #CostOfLivingCrisis | Karen Throsby | The Guardian

I was aware of the issue of fat shaming and poverty shaming that has taken place over the past decade based on one essential ingredient of food. Maybe the #FoodIndustry needs to be forced to act rather than blaming people without money.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jun/26/sugar-scapegoat-society-ills-austerity-cost-of-living-crisis

#Politics #PublicPolicy #Health #Shaming #Poverty

Der heutige #Kalenderspruch geht raus an die #KielerWoche und die Betreiber:innen des #InternationalenMarkt. Die gezielt Menschen auf mitgebrachte Getränke ansprechen, damit diese sich Zitat: "peinlich berührt" fühlen.

#Armut #Gesellschaft #Scham #Shaming

Die #KielerWoche ist angeblich ein #Volksfest "für alle" #Inklusion

Die #KN berichten, laut Stadt #Kiel sei die Mitnahme eigener Getränke 🥤 zur #KielerWoche in allen öffentlichen Bereichen erlaubt. Eigentlich!

DENNOCH werden Menschen auf dem #InternationalenMarkt gezielt angesprochen, wenn sie eigene Getränke mitführen - offenbar damit diese sich "peinlich berührt" fühlen. #Shaming 🫗

WTF Kiel?

Ich weiß jetzt, wo ich auf der KiWo künftig auf keinen Fall mehr hingehe. 🚫

🎬 Three of my favorite actresses star in "The Miracle Club"—#MaggieSmith #KathyBates and #LauraLinney.

The trailer indicates a feel-good story set in #Ireland about unwed #mothers, the #Catholic church, regret, #reconciliation #miracles, and the healing waters of #Lourdes.

The trailer is ruined by emotionally-manipulative music. Hope the film itself isn't.

Premieres at the #TribecaFestival in June.

#movies #faith #superstition #Dublin #France #pregnant #shaming

https://youtu.be/lOqbQD2hrIY

🔥 #Meme #Zeitgeist #Twitter #TwitterMigration #BlueCheck #ElonMusk #8dolla #11dolla #shaming #sucka

We need to destroy slut-shaming by embracing sexuality.

Denying the existence of sexuality is counter-productive bullshit.

#Sexualize #Sexualization #slut #shaming #SlutShaming #sexuality

'It’s almost gotten to be boring, the degree to which people believe that what they refer to as “free speech” should not only allow them to say whatever they want (which it does), but should also prevent other people from understanding them to be the sort of person who says those things.’

#ARMoxon #ScottAdams #FreeSpeech #Shunning #Shaming

https://armoxon.substack.com/p/the-case-for-shunning

#Musk’s #disability #shaming is not #technically a #violation of the Americans with Disabilities Act #ADA but it was #cruel and it shows how #badly #bosses can #treat #employees. More than 4 decades in different workplaces & sectors clearly demonstrated to me that the ADA is fundamentally #useless. https://fortune.com/2023/03/11/elon-musk-mocks-disabled-twitter-employee-workplace-discrimination

#omlette #shaming

I have opinions on using the 🧵 emoji on people.
If people reply out of #thread, reacting with a 🧵 is just a #shaming tactic.
People know to use threads, if something is out of thread it was just an opsie.
Take a breath, let it slide, go die on another hill.

This is called 'Living your best life' shaming

#video #bro #dancemoves #shaming

Consequences of trespassing

Circa 2021

#handcuffs #handcuffed #cuffed #public #outdoors #trespassing #trespasser #trespass #privateproperty #punishment #punishments #punished #spidergag #spidergagged #gagged #sign #flipflops #ringgagged #ringgag #openmouthgag #croptop #ponytail #caught #humiliated #humiliation #shaming #shame #publicshaming #freeuse #bondage #boundandgagged #kink #fetish #kinky #publicplay #dudeindistress #guyindistress #GiD #belly

Wasting time for different generations :

-> Watching TV on the couch

-> Playing Video Games at a desk

-> Looking at your Phone while in bed

Shaming ensured!

It's not that people wouldn't do other things but you have to present them with such other things, not just tell them to stop and do "something" else.
Like you could take a walk with them, go out to eat, not just tell someone to do something but do it with them.

#generations #shaming #parenting

#EthicalNonMonogamy (#ENM): #Cheating, but with better branding (i.e., what #JadaSmith and her equally crazy "intimacy coach" Michaela Boehm advocate).

Being open to ethical non-monogamy (cheating with permission) doesn't make you more enlightened, liberated or any other of the #shaming words its fans claim. Shaming a partner into agreeing to an open relationship, ENM -- or whatever you want to call it -- is wrong. And, in some cases, downright abusive.

In my experience with clients who've had this pushed on them by a #narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic or #ClusterB variety pack partner/ex:

1) Were told there was something wrong with them if they didn’t agree to it.

2) Had to follow a completely different set of rules regarding third parties, because “it’s different for women.”

3) Were accused of being abusive and controlling if they didn’t want to agree to it.

4) After agreeing to it and then it (predictably) blew up, were #gaslighted and #FalselyAccused in family court of forcing the #BPD, #NPD, #HPD ex to have multiple sex partners.

In other words, if ethical non-monogamy/an open relationship isn’t what you want, don’t let anyone make you feel like there’s something wrong with you. If that’s what your spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend believes they need to evolve, grow, feel empowered, etc., perhaps it’s time for them to evolve themselves right out of the relationship.

#AbuseHasNoGender

I copied down a month's worth of #GOP fundraising texts I mysteriously received, so you didn't have to.

It is kind of fascinating seeing the relatively transparent but incessant ploys and tropes used. It has very little to do with #ideology -- and a lot do to with #tribalism and being part of the In Crowd and #shaming if you don't do what you're supposed to.

https://hill-kleerup.org/blog/2023/02/01/the-unbearable-gopness-of-being-earl.html

@CorinnaVahrenk1 Danke, ich nehme gerne 1 Tasse! ☺️🙏

Und, ja, Trolle wirken bewusst darauf hin, die Angegriffenen & beschämen (sog. #Shaming) und zu isolieren. Da auch als Mann zuzugeben: Es belastet mich, ich brauche Hilfe - darauf wurde zumindest meine Generation nicht vorbereitet. Aber durch Solidarität fallen die Vorwürfe auf die Hater zurück. Habe wohl leider noch Jahre des Kämpfens vor mir, aber werde diesen Weg der Rechtsfortbildung gemeinsam mit Familie, Freunden, Verbündeten gehen…🧡✊🇩🇪🇪🇺

@e_urq I think anyone who calls out and makes the lives of anyone adult or child, for any reason, a misery, needs to be called out. #Gay, #trans, #alternately #able, everything. Call it what you want. #Gender diverse, #sexuality #diverse, #neuro diverse. Being #different is no excuse for #shaming.

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