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“As one Canadian in a support group explained many years ago: “I see myself as a different sort of person now and whereas in my life I’d always been, I was always a human doing. And now I’m a human being and that's the only way I can describe it.” Another noted: "You have to find some other way to define yourself that isn’t dependent on your ability to produce."

#spoonie #spoonies #spoonielife #spooniesupport #mecfs #cfs #PwMEs #pwme

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“It is helpful when you can help take care of my physical needs, so that I can focus on meeting my emotional needs. For example, when you offer to drive or do the dishes, you just saved several of my spoons so I can use them elsewhere in my day. My spoons are my lifeline. Please support me in how I use them”

#spoonie @spoonies #spoonies #spoonielife #SpoonieThings #spooniesupport #chronicillness #chronicallyill

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“My Spoons Are Precious/Honor How I Use Them

Spoon theory is a metaphor used to describe the amount of mental or physical energy a person has available for daily activities and tasks. A spoon represents a unit of energy allocated to each exertion. I must use each spoon (unit of energy) wisely so that I don’t run out before the end of the day”

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There's a lot to unpack here, but I share bc at the end of it all, we need each other. I hope that the #newyear brings back #community understanding, listening, support, & love.

My latest #blog might be a rough read, so #triggerwarning if you've had close encounters in ERs or traumatic hospital experiences.
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https://adonkumentary.com/2023/01/03/two-weeks-two-surgeries-and-a-new-year/

I love you, I love you, I love you.

#community #chronicillness #spoonie #womenshealth
#newblogpost #amwriting #spoonielife #spooniesupport #chronicallyill