@endali Let’s be honest, the surest sign that you are bisexual is that you’re having these doubts about yourself.

All joking aside, it’s OK. I’ve been with my straight, cis female partner for 20 years this year, and I only figured out I was bisexual five years ago. I’ve had all manner of doubts about my own sexuality, beginning with “why am I even thinking about this in the first place?”

The truth is—while we can never truly no the future—I am in a happy monogamous marriage; Lord willing, I will never have another sexual partner, which means I will go through my whole life never being with someone who is t a woman. Nevertheless, I am #StillBisexual. And so are you.

Understanding my own sexuality has made me a better partner. It has made my sex life better even though that sex life continues to be with a single person. And it has made me a better person, as I have come to understand my queerness not just as a sexual orientation, but as a lens through which to view the world.

I’m sorry you’re having these doubts and feelings about yourself. The only thing I can say with certainty is that you are enough. You are good enough; you are bi enough. Nobody gets to define your sexuality but you—not the people around you, not people online, not your partner, not your sexual history, and not even your sexual future.

#Introduction Time

I’m Steve (not my real name). I’m a bisexual cisgender man happily, faithfully, monogamously married to a straight cisgender woman. We’ve been together for more than 20 years, but I’m #StillBisexual.

I am out and proud, but I wasn’t when I started a Twitter account under this name. Even though I am no longer hiding who I am IRL, I find a certain freedom in anonymity here, so I’m hanging onto it.

I have absolutely no patience for transphobia, biphobia, or any other garbage like it. Hopefully that won’t be an issue like it was on the bird site, but if it comes into view, it’s blocked and reported without a second thought.

If you were following me on Twitter, say hi! I hope to find community here like I did there.

#BWithTheT #BisexualMenSpeak

RT @BiBookAwards@twitter.com

Seeking Judges: Do you love #books & #reading? Do you want your opinions to matter? Need judges 4 our 11th #BisexualBookAwards. Seeking fast #readers who love 2 discuss books with their peers. https://biwriters.org #BisexualBooks #BiTwitter #StillBisexual #writers #BiVisibility

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Despite being aware of the hardships #bisexual #men face when they come out of the closet, I'm pro #comingout and I wish more men would live openly their #bisexuality. Don't grossly jeopardize your physical, financial, or emotional safety though. #bivisibility #stillbisexual

It may sound silly, but when the people around me call me "gay", it invalidates the part of me who has sex with women as well as my relationships with my female partners, and I hate that. #bisexual #bisexuality #bierasure #bisexualerasure #bivisibility #stillbi #stillbisexual

Trying to figure out what bothers me exactly when my friends and husband mislabel me as gay even though they know I'm #bisexual. It's hard to pin down.🙄#bierasure #bisexualerasure #stillbi #stillbisexual #bivisibility