Dating a wo/man who turns out to be a #narcissist, #borderline, #histrionic or #Cluster
B variety pack is like a reverse Scooby Doo villain mask reveal. In other words, a mask of normalcy
hides the predator just beneath the surface of the fake #LoveBomb persona. Ruh roh!
When the #BPD, #NPD, #HPD reveals their true nature, believe it. Don't rationalize, deny and make excuses for their atrocious behavior. That's called #enabling.
Emotionally and psychologically mature adults know the difference between right and wrong -- and not just how it applies to how they're treated by others. Grown-ups take personal #responsibility/ #accountability for their words and actions, don't play #victim when they experience consequences. They also actually give a damn about how their choices affect others especially the people they love.
On a miscellaneous note, seeing Scooby Doo through the eyes of an adult I'm now convinced Scooby Snacks are edibles.
On an miscellaneous separate note, Scrappy Doo ruined Scooby Doo.
#narcissist #borderline #histrionic #cluster #lovebomb #bpd #npd #hpd #enabling #responsibility #accountability #victim #thatsnotnormal #abusehasnogender