#Feminism
#ThePatriarchy

And so today I’m going to try and understand what others mean when they talk about The Patriarchy. I’ve tried to understand not what is, but what others have come to define as ‘The patriarchy’. So, moving forward I’m going to refer to it as tP for brevity.

I want to address some of the definitions of tP and how it relates to my life experiences. First, let me try and break these down the best I can.

Why the fuck does #youtube #ban links to #nudity anyway? Sexually explicit links, fine, whatever, they don't want people to link to porn. But who the fuck cares about nudity? Yet you know they don't ban links to sites selling guns, etc. Fuck #thePatriarchy

It's hard to read old #RomanceComics without constantly raising a fist and screaming against "The Patriarchy!!" This one teaches a young woman how to be gaslit by an abusive alcoholic with a gambling problem. To her credit, she ends up preferring a creep who was mean to her at the outset instead of hiding his assholishness, so that's pretty progressive.

#ComicBooks #OldComics #ThePatriarchy #Comics #ComicPanels #OutOfContextComics

"A recent study showed that 63 percent of men view dating as a self-improvement exercise. An exhausting situation for their dates, who went out expecting a negroni and wound up giving free therapy." https://lyz.substack.com/p/men-are-lonely-but-women-are-being?publication_id=4106&post_id=103069490&isFreemail=true

#relationships #dating #happiness #thepatriarchy #genderequality

new #freethenipple #banned video discussion video up on tiktok! (no actual female nipples visible obviously, because tiktok is owned by #thePatriarchy...

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRtenQjL/

or you can watch it on YouTube if you prefer.

https://youtu.be/m5FXxJuNVVE

if you want to help others find my content, please like, share, etc ❤️ (please don't unfollow me for saying that 😅 I hate it too)

RT @kidneydoc101@twitter.com

@lungsatwork@twitter.com Your might girl needs one of these T shirts which I saw on a fb post tonight - https://thespark.company/ @SparkCompany1@twitter.com

There are many more - generally challenging #thepatriarchy

🐦🔗: https://twitter.com/kidneydoc101/status/1508231828062318599

I also would love to hire (in order of need)
- a #webdev to install an e-commerce site that allows people to purchase tokens to then exchange for digital files (lots of red tape thanks to #ThePatriarchy , I can explain later)
- the same or another web dev to change the existing #wordpress theme on my website toplesstopics.org with something cleaner and more video-focused

Happy to follow-back accounts for #sexWorkers, #normalizeNudity , #queer / #lgbtq+ , #intersectionalFeminism , #genderEquality and other #progressive #activists, and any other #contentCreator who focuses on #thePatriarchy -unapproved #capitalism -unfriendly content (and their supporters). Our goal is to provide a supportive network for "outcast creators" that can share resources, #collaborate / commisserate, and make friends!

You don't need to be an outcast creator either, just be prepared and respectful to cross paths with those who are. We also have a #discord where you can find more of us: https://discord.gg/cMtKd8j3

If you'd like a follow-back, please reply or DM us, and have at least a few posts on your profile already (and don't be, like, a bigot or conspiracy theorist)!

Honestly I'm really excited we finally started our #outcastcreatorcollective, to help #sexWorkers, #normalizeNudity #activists, and other often- #censored #contentCreators not approved by #thePatriarchy exchange resources, #collaborate / commiserate, and maybe make friends.

There are a few #creator -centric groups out there, but not many (that I can find), and are generally just full of people dropping links to their own content with no interaction with other people in the group. I also don't think a single one of them is focused on being a safe space for outcast creators, either.

Right now we only have a #discord server, but in the future (once we can find sufficient funding and volunteer leaders) we want to establish our own #fediverse server, as well as video host for capitalism-unfriendly content that isn't an outright porn site (because a lot of people simply don't want to have to visit a porn site just to see nonsexual female nipples or full body nudity).

If you'd like to join us, you can do so here. We'd love to have you! https://cr8r.gg/@outcastcreatorcollective/109632387090621956

Just made a #sworker resources room in our #discord server, for #sexWorkers to let others know about #adultContent - friendly #socialMedia , #livestream and #video platforms, informative articles, etc. Please feel free to check it out by joining our #outcastCreatorCollective server at https://discord.gg/cMtKd8j3 where you'll find a supportive community of "outcast #contentCreators" and our supporters, by which we mean #creators who often face #censorship, #shadowbans, #bannedContent, and other forms of persecution online that "#capitalismFriendly" content approved of by #thePatriarchy do not have to endure.

You don't have to be a creator yourself (or specialize in #nudity #sexWorker or other often-censored types of content), just be prepared to cross paths with those who are, and remain respectful. :)

The main parts of the server are all SFW and require additional age verification to access the #18plus areas, so you don't have to worry about stumbling into sexually explicit content if you don't want!

Thanks and we really hope to get to know you! Our goal is to grow a diverse, supportive and useful network of outcast creators where we can #collaborate, commiserate, share resources, and even make new friends!

https://www.toplesstopics.org/fbspying/ (link contains nonsexual female nipples)

updated the page for my #infosec #freethenipple video with #thepatriarchy-approved versions for Youtube, as well as a blooper reel.

Still open for useful links I should add in the resources page! Lay 'em on me, if you please 😃

New to Mastodon. Never had Twitter, but love that's it's crashing & burning around Elon. Lover of #animals, #comedy, #traveling, #foodie, #learning, #books, #reading, #thetruth and the downfall of #thepatriarchy

The #OutcastCreatorCollective new #Discord server is NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS!

Our discord server is a place for #contentcreator / #influencer / #livestream / #artist / #writer / and many other types of #creators (and their fans/supporters!) to share tips and resources, commiserate and complain (in our #rant room 🙂​), find others to #collaborate with, and to #selfpromote your content (as long as that's not the ONLY involvement you have with our community!)

The #outcast part of our name is because our community is focused especially on supporting so-called #outcastcreators, those who don't abide by societal rules set by #ThePatriarchy / #Capitalism / #Sponsorships / #AdFriendly / #monetization and are therefore #ostracized -- #banned , #blocked, #shadowbanned , or otherwise #censored / face #censorship to a degree that most creators never face!

Folks like #sexworker / #erotic / #adultentertainer , #intersectionalfeminism (not the ad-friendly "girl power" kind), #normalizenudity ,
#progressive / #leftist ,#sexualeducation , #kink and #fetish education, #LGBTQ + / #queer , #disability , #houseless , #racialequality , #mentalhealth and many other types of #activism , and so on.

(Worry not--any nudity or erotic/adult content is limited to our 18+ rooms, which require age verification to access. You won't accidentally stumble onto anything that's likely to get you embarrassed on the bus!)

Please note you don't HAVE to be an "outcast creator" to join us, you just have to be respectful towards those who are, and expect to cross paths with them in our community.

Also please note that we are NOT a place that is welcoming to white nationalists, conspiracy theorists, TERFs, "debate bros" or otherwise toxic people who usually use the excuse of "free speech" to be hateful towards others. Respectful language is strictly enforced- no insults, no matter how subtle you think you're being, will be tolerated. Our community is, above all else, dedicated to being a #wholesome (if ad-unfriendly) space that is here to support creators and their followers, NOT provide yet another platform for hate.

We're a new server, but staffed with volunteers who have experience with a variety of content creation, and we're very open to feedback to however we can improve our community!

If any/all of that sounds interesting to you and you'd like an invite, you can reply or DM me here, or PM me on Discord at #Ceridwen6967 .

I hope to see you there!

The notion that a powerful man says he's not guilty of rape because the woman he had sex with really really needed a job and he would only let her work if he had sex with him...
#Weinstein admits he deserves to be in prison, even as he claims he is actually #innocent
#MeToo might not be perfect, but #ThePatriarchy does so hate to be questioned.. Makes you wonder if #greed is the only real motivating factor. #StickTogetherForThePower *even when they know they're guilty of crimes.

*especially

Okay~ *deep breath* Big news! It's taken about twenty hours over the past week, but I think we've pretty much finished setting up our new #OutcastCreatorCollective #discord server, where #contentcreator and their supporters can commiserate, collaborate, share resources, or otherwise form a #community of supportive friends who are interested in lifting each other up so we can keep up the fight. The server is especially intended for those who are fighting against #thepatriarchy, standing up for #racialjustice, #feminism, #lgbtqia rights, #disability activism, #mentalhealth , #normalizenudity, #sexworkers , #houseless advocacy, and so much more.

Please note that we are NOT welcoming to those who often complain the most about "having their free speech suppressed"--you don't have to be a #progressive #activist to join, but you're unlikely to enjoy yourself if you aren't at least left-of-center.

You don't have to be an "outcast creator" or their supporter to join, but be aware that our focus is to be a safe place for those who are, so respectful behavior is mandatory! If you're not yet a content creator but you would like to get advice and encouragement from others who are, you may be interested in joining as well. :)

While we're still testing out anti-trolling safety measures (that's what took up so much time this week 😅 ) we're keeping the link direct-invite-only, so if you'd like to join, please DM me and I'll give you the link. Also please let anyone you know who might be interested in joining about our new server!

Sorry for all the exclamation points, I'm just really excited 😁

Your daily reminder that you cannot be feminist, anti-racist, anti-capitalist, anti-patriarchy and also support adoption.

#Adoption #AdopteeVoices #Feminism #Capitalism #AntiCapitalism #Racism #AntiRacism #ThePatriarchy #AntPatriarchy

@frankiesaxx yep. #thepatriarchy always wins. And if it's anything like what I've already dealt with "on every platform you've heard of and some you haven't," even when my content DOESN'T violate any rules, it still gets banned thanks to false flagging by haters. www.toplesstopics.org/banned has hundreds of screenshots, and I have hundreds more I haven't uploaded yet.

@freemo
It's absolutely wrong to say nudity and pormography are the same and I bet you even include "female looking nipples" as "nudity" but not "male looking nipples." if mastodon could not be #sexist, #misogynistic and #transphobic like all the centralized platforms run by #thepatriarchy, that would be amazing.
@admitsWrongIfProven

Saw a post that I greatly disagree with but I don't want to give them engagement or start a flame war so I'll summarize my opinion here;

Asking men to also step in to stop #misogyny, esp calling it out when they see it in their fellow male cohorts, isn't "asking men to fix patriarchy for me"

It's asking men to ALSO take an active role in fighting against the same #toxicmasculinity that hurts everyone, men included

Not really sure how you twist yourself into such a bad faith argument to interpret "men, please do more to stop misogyny among your own ranks" as "men and men alone, fix sexist society for me"

Anyway... Just wanted to scream that into the void, briefly.

#feminism #equalrights #thepatriarchy

So like, I go to the home tab on tusky, I type #thepatriarchy into the search bar at the top, go to the hashtag tab, and the ONLY result is one of my own posts... Are you telling me I'm the only user on the whole of mastodon who's ever used the tag #thepatriarchy before? 🤨