Asked for evidence from the pro-#narcissist crowd. A link, a source, anything. At this point, I'd even have taken a blog post as evidence.

One woman whose voice I actually enjoyed quote-retweets me to explain that "maybe I should listen to #NPD people instead of believing experts."

Well I have. For forty years, I've had to deal with #narcissistic #abuse. At this point, people with NPD are fucking terrifying to me.

She explains that maybe #narcissists would give me a source if I didn't come off as confrontational and rude.

OK? So I should just take the abuse then? Like, do you not realize that this is literally how I became trapped in not one but two #relationships with narcissists who chipped at my psyche until I had to rebuild my identity from scratch during intensive #therapy?

Nah. I'm not doing that. If not even one narcissist is capable of being #empathic to a #survivor of narcissistic abuse, then what the fuck are they even arguing? That we should be nice to #abusers? That's Megan #Phelps shit right there. #Entitled, narcissistic #behavior. Those of us who've #survived it see it for what it is.

And we don't have any reason to #tolerate it. In fact, we have every reason to cut a person off who behaves that way.

Every extraordinary claim requires extraordinary evidence. In its absence, at least have the #humility to recognize the #harm that your #disorder does to the people around you and talk to survivors who are justifiably terrified of you like they're people who deserve at least as much #empathy as you're asking for.

And if you can't do that, then you kind of proved how #dangerous you are, didn't you?

I think you did. It's why I'll block you.

#psychology #neverAgain

"Ninety percent of the art of living consists of getting along with people you cannot stand." — Sam Goldwyn — — — #SamGoldwyn #quote #quotes #quip #snarky #gettingalong #endure #tolerate #endure #humor #tolerance #people

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REMEMBER PUTIN GOAL??
#DENAZIFICATION!

The #Russian #President has threatened to #CUT_OFF #GAS to “#unfriendly_countries” unless they pay in the Russian currency, the rouble.

Mr #Putin signed a presidential decree #ordering buyers to #open #rouble_accounts in #Russian_banks.

#Germany which is one of the main buyers of Russian gas said it would not #tolerate any #attempt at what it called “#political_blackmail”??

https://youtu.be/iBvDOzZzn-M

#International_Tech_News | #BIG_OIL | #BIG_GOV

REMEMBER PUTIN GOAL??
#DENAZIFICATION!

The #Russian #President has threatened to #CUT_OFF #GAS to “#unfriendly_countries” unless they pay in the Russian currency, the rouble.

Mr #Putin signed a presidential decree #ordering buyers to #open #rouble_accounts in #Russian_banks.

#Germany which is one of the main buyers of Russian gas said it would not #tolerate any #attempt at what it called “#political_blackmail”??

https://youtu.be/iBvDOzZzn-M

present it as a gift...

#marriage #partner #tolerate #colouringbook #love