It can develop into fear of expressing and asserting themselves. They won't be able to communicate well, and communication is a very important skill that affects many (if not all) aspects of our lives.

If suppressed, it can build up and explode later on. Imagine all those years of just keeping things to themselves.

Learning: When I have kids, I will give them the voice to explain themselves but in a respectful manner.

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Toxic #Filipino parenting culture: not giving your kids the chance to explain themselves whenever they make mistakes or don't agree with you. Instead, you just yell at them and worse, call them names.

If the intention is to make them fear you so that they don't make the same mistake again, maybe it will work. But in the long run, it can lead to #trauma that can haunt them even in adulthood.

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Some of y'all have no business being parents. I cannot believe the letter I just read. My god. #BadParenting #Parenting #HealthyRelationships #FinancialIndependence #FinancialLiteracy #ToxicParenting https://slate.com/business/2023/01/cutting-off-daughter-personal-finance-advice.html