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Kevin Karhan :verified: · @kkarhan

1283 followers · 85286 posts · Server mstdn.social

@harriorrihar Point is: Nothing that #NSAbook does will ever allow you that flexibility - they are - like all #GAFAM|s - inherently interested in a #ToxicRelationship with maximum pain for leaving [See #EmbraceExtendAndExtinguish ] .

That's why #TechIlliterates haven't made the jump to #Linux ages ago...

That's why people still use shit likg #Google and #Facebook and their Services...

#EmbraceExtendAndExtinguish #Facebook #Google #Linux #TechIlliterates #toxicrelationship #gafam #NSAbook

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°_* · @5chntnfee

35 followers · 187 posts · Server troet.cafe

THIS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4fpuIxf5So&list=TLPQMDQwNzIwMjND9fPsWPywwQ&index=2 #toxicrelationship #trauma #narzismus #PTSd #health #mentalhealth

#mentalhealth #health #ptsd #narzismus #trauma #toxicrelationship

Last updated 1 year ago

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AutisticMumTo3 She/her · @AutisticMumTo3

123 followers · 2371 posts · Server mastodon.uk.com

Murdered man, 19, was too ashamed to go to police over ‘controlling and coercive’ girlfriend, mother reveals | The Independent
#DomesticAbuse
#CoerciveControl
#ToxicRelationship
#Police
#Shame
#Embarrassment
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/kamila-ahmed-jail-croydon-tai-b2329740.html

#domesticabuse #coercivecontrol #toxicrelationship #police #shame #embarrassment

Last updated 1 year ago

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klept0 · @klept0

11 followers · 59 posts · Server twit.social

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Found the story of my love life…
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#redflags #toxicrelationships #gaslighting #toxicpeople #toxic #toxicrelationship #boundaries #relationships #relationshipproblems #storyofmylife

#redflags #toxicrelationships #gaslighting #toxicpeople #toxic #toxicrelationship #boundaries #relationships #relationshipproblems #storyofmylife

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introduce · @introduce

3 followers · 13 posts · Server mastodon.social

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Love isn't always easy. A toxic relationship suggests that it is real. It reminds you that love isn't easy, it can be full of challenges, and that's perfectly normal. It also teaches you that you are not worthy of respect and courtesy. There's nothing wrong with going far, and you have to rely on rules and warning signs.

#man
#woman
#Relationship
#toxic
#ToxicRelationship

https://introduce.site/toksik-iliskilerden-ogrenebilecegimiz-dersler/

#man #woman #relationship #toxic #toxicrelationship

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dustcircle :verified: · @dustcircle

785 followers · 5428 posts · Server home.social

5 Signs You Have A #ToxicRelationship With Yourself

https://www.bustle.com/wellness/toxic-relationship-with-yourself
#SelfEsteem #SelfCare #Wellness

#toxicrelationship #selfesteem #selfcare #wellness

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Erica Crooks · @officialericcrooks

66 followers · 1696 posts · Server mastodon.social

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Different faces, same JERK ! Whoever the sucker that's with this dope, may you heal from this toxic person.

#ericacrooks #ericacrookscomics #ericacrookscomics2023 #satire #toxicmasculinity #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissism #darkhumor #cartoon #webcomic #webcomics #comic #comics #darkcomedy #cartoons

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Erica Crooks · @officialericcrooks

66 followers · 1696 posts · Server mastodon.social

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Different faces, same JERK ! Whoever the sucker that's with this dope, may you heal from this toxic person.

#ericacrooks #ericacrookscomics #ericacrookscomics2023 #satire #toxicmasculinity #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissism #satire #darkhumor #cartoon #webcomic #webcomics #comic #comics #darkcomedy #cartoons

#ericacrooks #ericacrookscomics #ericacrookscomics2023 #satire #toxicmasculinity #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissism #darkhumor #cartoon #webcomic #webcomics #comic #comics #darkcomedy #cartoons

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Erica Crooks · @officialericcrooks

66 followers · 1696 posts · Server mastodon.social

Different faces, same JERK ! Whoever the sucker that's with this dope, may you heal from this toxic person.

#ericacrooks #ericacrookscomics #ericacrookscomics2023 #satire #toxicmasculinity #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissism #satire #darkhumor #cartoon #webcomic #webcomics #comic #comics #darkcomedy #cartoons

#ericacrooks #ericacrookscomics #ericacrookscomics2023 #satire #toxicmasculinity #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissism #darkhumor #cartoon #webcomic #webcomics #comic #comics #darkcomedy #cartoons

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heyatawin · @frauaufdemgrat

38 followers · 197 posts · Server nrw.social

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#mentalhealth #heavymental #depression #toxicrelationship

Teil der Gesellschaft

Toxische Beziehungen kann man beenden. Seine Beziehung zur Gesellschaft nicht. Für mich fühlt es sich toxisch an, ein Teil dieser Gesellschaft zu sein.

>Zum Blog
https://frauaufdemgrat.wordpress.com/2023/01/06/teil-der-gesellschaft/

#mentalhealth #heavyMental #depression #toxicrelationship

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Shrink4Men · @Shrink4Men

10 followers · 43 posts · Server lor.sh

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There’s a big difference between being #alone and feeling all alone. Typically, clients often feel less lonely/all alone as singles than when with their exes. That’s because you are alone in a relationship with a #narcissist, #borderline, #histionic or #psychopath.

Alone in effort, #intimacy peace-keeping, problem-solving, etc. Your needs, feelings and wants don’t matter. You only exist as an ego-gratifying object and scapegoat. Presumably, you’re also all alone in terms of emotional and psychological maturity, empathy, accountability, integrity and conscience. In some ways, you’re the single parent of an angry, cruel, selfish, pathologically dishonest, destructive adult toddler you can’t put in timeout. In this respect, I agree that being a single parent of an adult toddler is the toughest job there is ; )

Why are you all alone in a relationship with a #BPD, #NPD, #HPD?

1) The #lovebomb version of them at the beginning of the relationship wasn’t real. It’s a patchwork of #idealization, #mirroring, #projection, #TraumaBonding via #intensity and #bullshit.

2) It’s impossible for an adult to have an equal/equitable partnership with a child. This includes the #AdultToddler of the #ClusterB variety pack. They don’t want a partner; they want enablers. Even if you enable like an Olympic champion-level doormat/nanny/ego fluffer, they’ll eventually resent you for that, too. And then, the more you enable them – which is super unhealthy, btw – the worse they treat you.

3) Relationships with BPD/NPD/HPD aren’t two-way streets (i.e., mutual and reciprocal). They’re one-way streets paved with double standards. These individuals are pathologically self-absorbed and selfish.

4) After the #LoveBombing stage, you become a screen onto which they #project all of their flaws and psychological sewage. Objective reality is irrelevant.

You are alone in these relationships because you never really existed to them in the first place. Meaning, they never really appreciate a partner for who they truly are. But rather how willing you are to:

- Tolerate abuse and exploitation.
- #Enable them.
- Sacrifice/care for them without getting anything in return.
- Never hold them accountable.

Basically, any #codependent, trauma bond/ #RepetitionCompulsion/ #PeoplePleaser/ #fixer/ #resuer will do.

Therefore, isn’t it better to be alone than to feel all alone in a #ToxicRelationship? Or, to be alone rather than wish you were alone? Table for one, please!

#AbuseHasNoGender #TheMoreYouKnow

#alone #narcissist #borderline #histionic #psychopath #intimacy #bpd #npd #hpd #lovebomb #idealization #mirroring #projection #traumabonding #intensity #bullshit #adulttoddler #clusterb #lovebombing #project #enable #codependent #repetitioncompulsion #peoplepleaser #fixer #resuer #toxicrelationship #abusehasnogender #themoreyouknow

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Tea 🥄🖤🐘🤍💜 · @Tii

72 followers · 245 posts · Server aus.social

YouTube - Toxic Relationships: FOR DUMMIES

I just found this video today on youtube today and it is such an amazing video that I can't believe how amazing it is, it is such an amazing deconstruction on toxic relationships. I would love to boost this creator please

#boost #toxicrelationship #amazing #follow #like #subscribe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMKi83Drv50&ab_channel=Tirrrb

#boost #toxicrelationship #amazing #follow #like #subscribe

Last updated 2 years ago

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subrote 🏳️‍⚧️ · @subrote

456 followers · 1455 posts · Server mastodon.lol

yall ever have that kind of long-term #toxicRelationship where things like 'you cheated on me, so i get to cheat on you to make us even' [implied: and then our relationship will go on to grow and flourish like nothing happened]

kinda logic made sense?

#toxicrelationship

Last updated 2 years ago

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