@hyenagirl64 I am out publically, I have my pronouns in my medical charts. For the last 6 months, I have been repeatedly misgendered while trying to figure out what's wrong. In today's procedure, they used They/Them without hesitation or me prompting and I almost cried. This was the first time in 6 months that any doctor has. #transpositivity
#transpositivity We get so many compliments about our name when we bring it up its fantastic. Also we get to just be extremely queer in public with our partner. It's not just one instance of queerness either. Bonus points when we're gaying out and about around the mall and the likes and bringing out the queerness in other folks too, getting them to open up and feel safe is our goal after all.
@hyenagirl64 The most recent time I was queer in public was last Friday at a French chat. I told folks I'm #pansexual. The guy next to me revealed he was #gay. I felt safe.
I'm not trans but the last event involving a trans person was in Feb when I passionately kissed Lovely Impala (trans girl) at Walmart in public. Fearless Impala (cis girl) was there, but didn't like PDAs. No one was paying attention to us, however. Neither are in my life anymore.
I guess this qualifies for #transpositivity?
#pansexual #gay #transpositivity
@hyenagirl64 i struggle heavily with agoraphobia and went for a walk in a nature park in a pretty dress just as myself
every single person i passed just smiled and said hello... no weird looks, no callouts, nothing negative at all. these types of experiences are valuable to me when i hear so much about folks who'd do me harm. it's nice to just be treated like a human, like everyone else
#transMascs this is for you :FrogeHearty:
#transSolidarity #transPositivity
#transpositivity #transsolidarity #transmascs
I FINALLY found the video where OneTopicAtATime said these immortal, epic words!!! 🥰
"If you think that you might be faking it, it's a really good sign that you're not.
When you can hear yourself telling you who you are, listen to yourself."
He says this in this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBvBr5h-vpw at about 8 minutes 40 seconds.
#trans #transgender #TransPositivity #OneTopicAtATime #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #TransRightsAreHumanRights
#trans #transgender #transpositivity #onetopicatatime #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #transrightsarehumanrights
🇪🇦 Viernes al sol. Me ha gustado este banco. A ver cuando puedo venir como mi auténtico yo.
🇬🇧 Fridays in the sun. I liked this bench. Let's see when I can come as my authentic self.
#transgender, #transgenero, #transwoman, #mujertrans, #transgirl, #tgirl, #trans, #transproud, #transisbeautiful, #transbeauty, #translesbian, #spanishgirl, #girlslikeus, #thisisme, #estasoyyo, #transpositivity, #selflove, #behappy, 🏳️⚧️
#transgender #transgenero #transwoman #mujertrans #transgirl #tgirl #trans #transproud #transisbeautiful #transbeauty #translesbian #spanishgirl #girlslikeus #thisisme #estasoyyo #transpositivity #selflove #behappy
Thanks to everyone for answering my poll yesterday. I never would have expected the huge amount of support I got. It truly proved what I said about never having seen a more supportive group of people. I'm going to try to keep my questions to one per day so I can keep up. Again, feel free to boost for visibility. Thanks so much!
#trans #transhealth #transpositivity
I really like it when people use "they" when talking about me until they are sure what I like to be called. I look pretty ambiguous, so they're doing right.
It is really nice when people that work in clothing stores are understanding about the fact that I am really profoundly ignorant about women's fashion.
All-gender bathrooms are awesome! My favorite is at a place where they are marked "stalls only" and "stalls and urinals."
#transpositivity #transgender #translife
So my #voice is something that I've definitely been having less dysphoria about lately, which is something I've struggled with on and off since the start of my transition and while I'm not comfortable sharing any recordings of my pre-transition voice, here is a recording of it I did today.
It's a short segment of me reading Ken Thompson's letter to Mergenthaler from the vacation memo (covered in the computerphile 202 jailbreak video).
While I still think there's room for improvement I think I've gotten quite far and I'm pretty happy with where I am vocally. Bear in mind I have not had any kind of professional voice training.
#trans #transwoman #transvoice #britishaccent #transpositivity
#voice #trans #transwoman #transvoice #britishaccent #transpositivity
Cis people can't use what's "in their pants" to explain that they're cis because they don't have special cis people parts.
Nonbinary, genderqueer, and trans people have the same systems down there, generally speaking, as cis people.
So, cis people need evidence why they are not trans, nonbinary, or genderqueer given that cis people share the same basic systems as the former.
This is mostly a joke. I don't care about cis parts.
#cis #nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity
#genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #NonBinaryPositivity #cis
If the gender binary was immutable, then there would be no need to defend it. It would be as inevitable and natural as the sunrise.
But it’s not.
It must be upheld by policing how people dress, act, love, etc. with the threat of violence if one gets caught deviating too far from this forced “norm.”
And I have no interest in being part of a fantasy perpetuated and defended by murderers, cowards, and the ignorant.
#genderbinary #exorsexism #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #nonbinarypositivity ..
#NonBinaryPositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #exorsexism #genderbinary
Nothing can prevent nonbinary, trans, and genderqueer solidarity except those of us who are part of these communities.
Together, we are unstoppable.
#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #trans #genderqueer #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity ..
#transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderqueer #Trans #NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinary
This is a friendly reminder that:
Trans women are women, trans men are men, genderqueer people are really genderqueer, and nonbinary people are truly nonbinary.
Anyone who feels that they must contest the above statement deserves to plant their foot firmly upon at least one Lego.
#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #lego ..
#lego #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinary
Any reasons you have for wanting to transition (to any extent) are good reasons.
Dysphoria is only one reason to transition, but there are others, too.
You, better than anyone, know what you need to live a full and satisfying life.
As long as your reasons seem sound to you, then they should be good enough for everyone else.
#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #lgbtq #trans #transpositivity
#transpositivity #Trans #lgbtq #NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinary
You have the rest of your life to make the changes that you need, and you will make those changes.
Do so at you're own pace.
#nonbinary #lgbtq #nonbinarypositivity #trans #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderqueer
#genderqueer #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #Trans #NonBinaryPositivity #lgbtq #NonBinary
Try not to get too upset if you misgender yourself.
It's hard to fight the binary everyday just to be who you are. Sometimes you take a blow in the process, and sometimes it's deep.
That's to be expected in a fight.
Keep going. You have the strength.
#genderqueer #nonbinary #lgbtq #nonbinarypositivity #trans #transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity ..
#genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity #Trans #NonBinaryPositivity #lgbtq #NonBinary #genderqueer
There is nothing that cis people do that trans and nonbinary people can't do just as well.
#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #lgbtq #nonbinarypride #trans #transpride #transpositivity
#transpositivity #transpride #Trans #NonBinaryPride #lgbtq #NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinary
Your body does not belong to cishet people.
Live and change yourself as you choose.
Cishet opinions only matter insofar as they get in your way, and no more.
#transpositivity #genderqueerpositivity #nonbinarypositivity #lgbtq
#lgbtq #NonBinaryPositivity #genderqueerpositivity #transpositivity
You should not have to "compromise" in regards to your gender or lack of gender.
You should not have to compromise on a fundamental part of who you are.
You are an amazing expression of humanity, and you should be embraced fully as such.
#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #trans #transpositivity #lgbtq
#lgbtq #transpositivity #Trans #NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinary