Ok, today is significantly better, my “Virtual Hangover” is mostly, but not completely, gone. But I decided to take off today + tomorrow (as a freelancer that is easier to decide but that means loss of income), as my health is more important than work.

Just let the teams know that I am getting bettet but that they should not count on for these two days.

Aaaaanyway: yesterday, I told the second one (out of three?) my feelings so far. Well, I know, it is all in the Fediverse and what happens in Fediverse, stays in … Fediverse? 🤷🤔

The third I probably cannot without disrupting the space-time continuum, so that one will stay, floating there in the void like a beautiful, heart shaped cloud, floating, back and forth, back and forth, and we will see who sees it and who doesn’t 😝

Technically, I always seem to have been polyam but only last week finally gave in accepted it. But now I realize how difficult this can be for the others. Oh, #MyAdoredDaughter was so right: “My ‘something is wrong in my head’ thesis: It's time for society to part with its very rigid idea of ‘love’ in an exclusively sexual context in adults.”

Let’s see, let’s see.

What else? Oh, yeah, it is “Munich Security Conference” and since we all are working in IT-Sec, at least my wife is there today + tomorrow (#TalkDirtyToMeBaby). I really love IT-Sec, so, yeah, I would love to be there, but since I have to get better, she is going alone (well, technically, she is going there for her company, but yeah, I would’ve liked to be there as well)

#trans #love #trixic #enbian #musings #MSC #Munich #Security #Conference

Since I moved to a new instance (my own), a new #introduction is needed.

You can find my pinned intro here: https://tau-ceti.space/@imdat/109863682522438461

But…

… I joined Fedi some time last autumn. Since then, I probably learned more about myself than at any time before, mainly thanks to wonderful people, my #NewFriends and some, in the meantime, #OldFriends here.

I am a:
- ✅ #Neurodivergent,
- ✅ #OC (OCD),
- ✅ #ActuallyAutistic,
- ✅ #trans
- ✅ sometimes #GenderFluid
- ✅ #NonBinary (#Enby), who is
- ✅ #Polyam,
- ✅ #Trixic,
- ✅ #Enbian,
- ❌ not into cis men,
- ✅ partner of #LoveOfMyLife and
- ✅ parent of #MyAdoredDaughter. I am also a
- ✅ #Software #Engineer #ByHeart, #BySoul, and #ByFingers. I mostly do
- ✅ #SoftwareArcheology & #SoftwareModernization. I love
- ✅ #Cooking,
- ✅ #Musings,
- ✅ #ChitChatting with my #TransSiblings of every gender or non-gender (as they please; the more the better). Most of the time, you can just
- ✅ #IgnoreMe,
- ✅ #LoveMe,
- ✅ #TalkShitWithMe as long as it is full of #Intelligence, #Wit, #Humor and you have a mastery of #Languages. I love
- ✅ #Cats
- ✅ #Dogs
- ✅ #Animals & #Trees & #Nature & #Beauty & #BeautyInPeople (the list is too long…)

In my toots expect:
- ✅ #TransRights
- ✅ #Politics
- ✅ #WorkTopics (Software)
- ✅ #Ginlo, #Ginlo_II, #Cicero
- ✅ #CatImages
- ✅ #DogImages
- ✅ #BeautifulImages
- ✅ #CrazyDreams
- ✅ #FragMyBrain
- ✅ #HeatedDiscussions (but respectful & lovely)
- ✅ #CrazyStories,
- ✅ Stories about my adored daughter,
- ✅ Stories about love of my life,
- ✅ Stories about love, beauty, magic.

Hello, again!

viramoric is a label for nonbinary people exclusively attracted to men, toric is a label for nonbinary people attracted at least to men but whether the person is attracted only to men or not is unclear;

feminamoric is a label for nonbinary people attracted only to women, trixic is a label for nonbinary people attracted at least to women but whether the person is attracted solely to women or not is unclear.

These labels have been here for a while; saying every NB person has to use gay if they aren't m-spec/a-spec/have an undefined or fluid orientation is dismissive and borderlines on erasure tbh

#nonbinary #diamoric #toric #trixic #viramoric #feminamoric

these are mainly available only as jpgs on Tumblr, so I made bigger versions of the #asterian, #astroidian, #toric and #trixic #PrideFlags

https://imgur.com/a/LnZ1aA0

#nblm #nblw #wlnb #mlnb