Adri · @adriaster
32 followers · 155 posts · Server mastodon.uno
Nona Rose · @nona80_swanette
411 followers · 2678 posts · Server mastodon.au

Midnight thoughts on unrequited love.

It’s ok to love someone who doesn’t love you back, or doesn’t love you in the way that you want them to love you.

It’s ok to hurt because of that. It’s not nice to be rejected. It can stir up a lot of emotions and have you doubting yourself, your worth, your place in the world.

But mostly, it’s ok to not have your love returned and that’s not the fault of anyone (you or them).

It’s not your fault for not being enough.
You are enough.

It’s not their fault for not seeing how amazing you are.
They do see it.

It’s not either of your faults that your romantic interests aren’t in alignment.
People are allowed to love whoever they want.

So, be all that you are. Be in love with yourself and anyone else you want. Your capacity for love is not limited by the love others have for you, only by the size of your own heart.

#love #unrequitedlove #worth #emotions #rejection #romance #heart #hurt #midnightthoughts

Last updated 1 year ago

Alexia Dominique Reyes · @alexiadocare
6 followers · 8 posts · Server me.dm

"When you have been an unrequited lover for so long, you forget how it feels to be in a mutual love situation, so mutual feelings become scary." aloverindisguise.com/love-less

#love #unrequitedlove #onesidedlove #blog #aloverindisguise

Last updated 1 year ago

Lu de Córdoba · @lu_decordoba
151 followers · 756 posts · Server mas.to
Angela · @angels_gp
35 followers · 2320 posts · Server romancelandia.club
Castamyth · @Castamyth
3 followers · 23 posts · Server pawoo.net
SooticasDream · @SooticasDream
82 followers · 43 posts · Server pagan.plus

She still makes butterflies.....

#unrequitedlove

Last updated 1 year ago

Honeybee Deity :NekoRich: · @honeybeedeity
129 followers · 432 posts · Server mas.to

I broke it once… I’d do it again.

Approach properly and we will see how hard you fall 🧡💔

#unrequitedlovefetish #ebonydomme #fetish #unrequitedlove #kink #bdsm #femdom #findom

Last updated 1 year ago

StormEnchantra · @StormEnchantra
0 followers · 21 posts · Server romancelandia.club

Out now so hot turn the smoke detector off to read
Why Choose PNR Romance
Harem:
😈 Demon Prince, incubus that resents being next in line to rule
💀 Son of Hades, instantly falls for the FMC
🐉Dragon shifter, who is her brother's best friend
🫠 Demi-god, that wants more from the FMC

#unrequitedlove #brotherbestfriendtrope #ForbiddenLove #demonhunter #spicybooks #newrelease #rhbooks #rhpov #indieauthor #greekmythology #darkparanormalromance #whychooseromance #pnrromance #bookrecs #reverseharem

Last updated 1 year ago

MikeeZero · @Mikee
108 followers · 208 posts · Server zeroes.ca

“By The Sea”
Digital Acrylic
Made in by

It’s been a while, eh? I was inspired to paint this by a sound bite within an EMF song, “A man recalls the moment, when seated with his mistress outside a fisherman’s hut, he drank away the tears that fell on her white hand. Now that he is wasting away with longing, he realizes that those tears must’ve been poison”
_____

#procreate #mikeezero #followthezeroes #digitalart #unrequitedlove #dailyart2023

Last updated 2 years ago

Yewi · @yewi
113 followers · 213 posts · Server mastodon.scot

@Rayne_Hall_Author @robblog
Cats also love paper sliding doors here in Japan.
♥🐈

Obviously the doors don't love cats, though...

#cats #unrequitedlove

Last updated 2 years ago

DreambeastPoems · @DreambeastPoems
59 followers · 164 posts · Server mastodonapp.uk
Carol D · @tardigrad9
43 followers · 301 posts · Server mastodon.me.uk
Carol D · @tardigrad9
43 followers · 301 posts · Server mastodon.me.uk
Lu de Cordoba · @lu_decordoba
80 followers · 316 posts · Server mas.to
BuenosAiresHoraCero · @lighthousearia
4 followers · 108 posts · Server alive.bar

不管什么时候听concert yy 都觉得愁肠百结

#unrequitedlove

Last updated 2 years ago

I am the one who knocks · @Sp00derbundt
53 followers · 1597 posts · Server baraag.net
Nona Rose · @nona80_swanette
171 followers · 666 posts · Server mastodon.au

With most things, you don’t have to wait. If you want it, there are ways and means of getting it. It might not be easy and you might need to wait for opportunities but you can often create those.

With love, it’s not so simple. You might be able to create opportunities to meet people but you can’t create feelings that aren’t there. So, waiting for the right person to come along can be hard. It’s agonising, in fact.

Now, I’m waiting for my brain to catch up to my heart so I can see if this person I’ve found is my person. I hope he is but I have no idea if he even sees me that way. Plus, my brain is riddled with anxiety and 30 years of rejection, so I have to wait for it to find the courage to look beyond that and take a risk.

Someone help me get my brain to work.

#love #unrequitedlove #waiting #risk #anxiety #advice #adviceforlife

Last updated 2 years ago

Nona Rose · @nona80_swanette
165 followers · 623 posts · Server mastodon.au

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. And I missed big time tonight because I didn’t take the shot. I thought about it. And I convinced myself that I couldn’t do it. Every doubt I’ve ever had about myself bubbled to the surface and I couldn’t think of a single reason he’d want to be with me.

Self talk will be your best friend and your worst enemy. Learning which voice to listen to is not easy. Experience and knowledge will help. But sometimes that negative voice will whisper in your brain, and you’ll believe it enough to stop whatever it is you’re doing. Then you hate yourself for listening to that voice and it just reinforces the negativity.

Breaking a cycle like that takes time and energy because you have to internalise all the compliments that people give you when my first reaction is to say, “oh, it was nothing” or “no, I’m not.”

#love #unrequitedlove #crush #selfinflicted #torturedsoul #selftalk

Last updated 2 years ago

Nona Rose · @nona80_swanette
154 followers · 541 posts · Server mastodon.au

It’s 1:30am and I probably should be going to sleep but, instead, I am journaling about how I get to see the guy I have a crush on over the weekend (in a purely platonic way) and how there’s basically Buckley’s chance that I am going to be able to suck up the courage to tell him how I feel because I’m pretty sure there a snowballs chance in hell of him feeling the same way about me. All I can think of is reasons why it wouldn’t work and why he wouldn’t want me. *sigh*

Apologies to my followers who are just here for the pretty pictures and/or poetry. I am the epitome of the artist with a tortured soul, and it’s all my own doing.

#love #unrequitedlove #crush #selfinflicted #torturedsoul

Last updated 2 years ago