OccuWorld · @OccuWorld
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Sandy Warnstaff (he/him) · @Warnstaff
30 followers · 1181 posts · Server mastodon.sdf.org

American courts aren't the only ones going lightly on those who sexually assault minors. An Italian 66 year old school janitor on school grounds groped a 17 year old girl for "5 to 10 seconds" and therefor did not commit any crime.
cnn.com/2023/07/13/europe/ital
If I ever meet this judge, I will grope him for "5 to 10 seconds" and use his own ruling against him. Hey, he made it legal!

#sexualassault #italy #injustice #victimization #courts

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dystobot · @dystobot
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RT @DkFrankel: Support ⁦@SenCortezMasto⁩ ⁦@MarkAmodeiNV2⁩ ⁦@NevadaAG⁩ ⁦@FoxNews⁩ ⁦@TODAYshow⁩ ⁦@MayorSchieve⁩ ⁦@JoeLombardoNV⁩ t.co/nwe1HQl9uc

#sb274 #nvleg2023 #tbi #dystonia #Nevada #workerscomp #Corruption #unlawful #victimization

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dystobot · @dystobot
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RT @DkFrankel: Manager Eric Brown states in attachment "This is the year we're choosing to invest in our employees"
Does this mean he will finally the and acts he has continued to allow his personel to commit upon me? @NevadaAG t.co/069Ltd9nmH

#washoecounty #stop #victimization #unlawful #tbi #dystonia

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CPIPR · @PopResearchCtrs
452 followers · 467 posts · Server sciences.social

Both status-related threats and victimization-related fears shape why individuals own guns, and how they use guns.

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/367781

-defense

#NICHDimpact #gunownership #crime #victimization #self

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Joan of Cat (she/her) 😼 · @ceruleanarc
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I've been learning a lot about lately because of the fact that my last was a .

I've also been well aware of how extensively I was used as a and as a . My abuser would and me into attacking other folks that I had no issue with because they were hurt by the (either today or 20 years ago) and deserved some sort of .

Today I finally found some into my role as a self-serving , a person who enables others' narcissistic because, although I too was being (and pretty fucking badly), I received some benefit from the relationship with the narcissist that led me not only to stay but also to throw others under the bus in order to maintain that . All because of that perceived benefit.

I'd say "I feel attacked," but I'm taking this pretty seriously because it's a pattern I replayed with my mother earlier in life, enabling her grandiose narcissism by attacking the people who "hurt" her.

What benefit, then, was so important that I was willing to sell my soul for it? My abuser gave me a lot of during a time when I felt incredibly . My abuser also curated and eagerly moderated my relationships with their and . And when I didn't or couldn't behave by their standards, they pulled away, often taking their friends and family with them and me in a state where I didn't really have the left (due to the ) to build any relationships away from them.

My abuser used this power to great effect once I decided I was no longer tolerating or their behavior, cutting me off from everyone I'd known and cared about and about their abuse of me, claiming instead that I was the abuser and they the (they've had a long-standing pattern of by practically everyone in their life, whether or not these people were actually ).

It took a very, very long time to rid myself of the now- belief that I was to for everything that had happened to me, and I couldn't have done it without my friends and the that treated me.

Having been responsible for hurting so many others because of my fear of losing all of the social connections and relationships that my abuser moderated sucks to know. I've apologized to some of the folks I hurt in my enabling of my abusers narcissistic abuse of others, but there's many more who I'll never get the chance to apologize to. And these folks have the absolute right to not want me in their lives ever again. Enablers are awful people sometimes, and I was pretty fucking awful when my abuser demanded it. I can with myself, but none of this excuses me, and I am owed nothing by those I've hurt for my own benefit within a toxic relationship.

I don't know when, if ever, I'll be able to wholly myself either. Maybe one day, but only by keeping the energy I have now and continuing to as the person I've decided to be going forward, during this novel (for me) absence of narcissists in my life. And by making amends by raising up and serving those around me now to the best of my ability.

is a long, painful road, and it's hard to imagine what its end may look like. Maybe it never reaches one. I can live with that.

#narcissism #abuser #covert #narcissist #bulldog #SledgeHammer #gaslight #guilt #target #punishment #insight #enabler #abuse #abused #toxic #relationship #attention #alone #friends #family #isolating #spoons #enabling #lying #victim #victimization #abusive #internalized #blame #mental #health #professionals #empathize #forgive #grow #healing #joan #psychology

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Félicien Breton · @breton
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Test doxing a thief

CW

Testing

#PDX #thief #theft #victimization

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edwardchampion · @edwardchampion
223 followers · 470 posts · Server toot.community

Trolls will show up here. That's an inevitability. But here's a thought: maybe stop engaging with them? Just block them, say nothing, and move on. The Twitter habit of quote-tweeting and screenshoting their crude sentiments gives them the attention they covet and paints you as a false victim to artificially land more followers. You're a thinker with a voice, not a victim. Mastodon is not set up for you to inflate your "victimhood" for more eyeballs.

#trolls #victimization #ego #attention

Last updated 2 years ago

Lars Alberth · @LarsAlberth
239 followers · 96 posts · Server sciences.social

Rare pic of yours truly in the wild. Talking about the concern with data on during the -19 crisis (and on how to do research on the fate of the knowledge produced by ) @sociologists_list @sociology

#childhood #victimization #covid #childhoodstudies #sociology

Last updated 2 years ago